The Difference Between Feelings and Emotions

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I wonder what’s the emotional experience you have from looking at this picture?

I wonder what feeling this picture triggers in your body?

I have met many people who are unaware that feelings and emotions are not the same thing. It is my belief that this is important knowledge that we should all have. We need to understand these subtle differences to help us learn to regulate our emotions so that we are not consumed by them which allows us to lead healthier lives and experience deeper relationships with our loved ones. In daily life, we often use the words feelings and emotions interchangeably but there are differences in the words that should be noted.

Emotions and Feelings

It may be easier to start with emotions. Emotions are our unconscious reactions that our bodies have to stimuli. Dr. Antonio R. Damasio – neurologist and chair of University of Iowa’s neurology department – noted that the feelings we experience in our bodies are formed after we have already had an emotional response to particular stimuli. He gives the basic example of being afraid, we all know the usual physical responses that our bodies experience, heart racing, sweating, and dry mouths among other things, our bodies automatically create these responses with no help from us. We only become aware that we are feeling fearful after our brain has registered these physical changes. It is also important to note that not all stimuli are external as noted by Dr. Damasio.

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So, our brain processes these physical changes as it scans the body and we recognize the physical feelings we are experiencing, but the emotional experience we have from past experiences is what we use to label these feelings. ...